Rigidity in the body (or in belief) feels like protection of the self. It’s bracing with a barrier so what’s sensitive avoids getting harmed. That’s the unconscious idea from my understanding. When things are so black and white, there’s no space for the grey; the in between.
There are some types of people that can be experiencing stress on the inside, but to the naked eye, you’d never know. These people most often don’t know they’re stressed because they’ve learned to quiet that part of their inner knowing.
When we’re sensitive and we grow up around people that are not, our sensitivity can feel like “too much” for those around us. They don’t understand it, so their response is you don’t feel that, or that’s not something you say, or nobody cares.
A sensitive person will learn to override their nervous system and their intuition to disconnect from that type of feeling.
Over time, our body can’t handle the consistent stress it’s navigating and will try another way to alert us. The alerts can be issues in the chest or the gut among other things. Doctors will run through all the test, but nothing will show up.
That’s usually when people will come to me; when nothing else is helping and they need to find some calm in the chaos. The technique in this month’s video is simple but very effective. It can take as little as 3 minutes with noticeable shifts in ease. I recommend it to people that have a hard time getting into their body or are looking to reconnect to what they feel.
If you have a hard time understanding what you’re feeling or if you feel disconnected from what’s going on in your body, it can’t hurt to try. So much is stressful in the world, in the US and in life. Let’s do what we can to come back to ourselves so we can feel safe to be at ease.
Your lymphatic system is part of your immune system. When you notice puffiness where there isn’t usually, your body can be blocked or need support to move the lymph. Walking, deep breathing and staying hydrated can all support the lymphatic system.
Holiday time equals more travel time and more sitting for me. When I sit for longer periods, I notice that my hips talk to me more than normal. Sometimes it’s one, other times it’s both that are uncomfortable. One day it’s on the right side and another day it’s in the left.
Since being back in school, I’ve noticed 3 things from a body perspective. I’m sitting and reading on a screen for extended periods of time and my breath is more shallow. It’s always better for me to have the kinesthetic sensation when figuring out how to feel better in the body, depending on the circumstances. I imagine this is what a body that works at a desk job might feel like.
The exercise for this month has transformed the results I’m able to get with my clients. It brings you back into your body, slows your brain down and eases that initial layer of bracing tension. It’s pretty clear by now that I can’t shut up about the nervous system. Everything I’ve learned about the body after 14 years in the field has led me to understand that the nervous system is key in making change. In order to affect the nervous system positively, safety is the way.
This is the first summer since the pandemic where it feels like NYC is back to normal (if that’s even a thing). It seems like people are really taking a much needed break to find their balance. I’ve found myself procrastinating on adulting things because I know my life is gonna to shift big time with the start of September and grad school.
I was home in July visiting my family and my mom was recovering from an injury in her ankles. I watched her walk to the car with me on the way to my nephew’s taekwondo class.
I noticed that her legs were rotated from her hips which looked like toes to the side instead of facing forward. I asked her to try and push off with her big toe to see how that felt. It didn’t give her pain, so it was ok to explore. This also had her move her legs into a more parallel position instead of the rotated one she was in before.
June was the month of travel me and my husband. I spent every weekend on a plane, in a car, or on a train. Each destination was beautiful and full of family, friends, and sunshine! That was the upside. On the downside, I was feeling all sorts of discomfort from sitting more than my body is used to. After the first trip, I changed things up a little and made a mini workout in the seated position. If you travel for work or leisure, try out any or all of the following tips to get rid of discomfort.
